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If I could give Blue Kryptonite more than 5 stars, I truly would. It was truly a pleasure working with Brenda. I am actually somewhat sad the planning/wedding are over with as I will miss working with her. Before reaching out to Blue Kryptonite, I talked with a few other officiants, but I wasn't really "wowed" by them and most of them charged an exorbitant amount for their services. When I met Brenda, I wasn't sure what to expect. I went in to the meeting asking my self "what if shes like the others I met with already". Soon after we started interacting with each other that went all away. In fact, my thought changed to "I think she'll be the one to officiate the wedding". Brenda was very down to earth, friendly, easygoing, and she just had an overall positive vibe. She gave off this vibe that she genuinely cared about you and your day. In our meeting, Brenda was very thorough in what kind of services she provides and even tells the couple that she will tailor the ceremony to the couple and their needs. I finally told her that my then fiance and I were looking to have a Star Wars themed wedding with a Star Wars themed ceremony. She became really excited about the idea and that's when our creative brains went to work. In a way she doubled as a planner, Brenda sent me ideas here and there for our ceremony as well as ideas for decorations for the ceremony. The whole experience with her was fun. Our guests even made compliments to us regarding the ceremony and how fun of an experience our ceremony was for them. If you're looking for an officiant who is affordable, fun, down to earth, and easy going, look no more. - Kristen

We can't thank you enough for the beautiful ceremony & personality you brought to our wedding. It truly would not have been the same (or as good!) without you. It's been an utter pleasure getting to know you these past few months and we're glad you were the one to pronounce us husband  & wife.

 - José & Christine

Mrs. Calabria was a great officiant as she helped the bride and groom to select their vows and shared previously experiences with them to guide them. She was professional and on point during the ceremony and even dressed the part during the themed ceremony. I would recommend her to anyone in need of a wedding officiant!! - Chris B, Father of the Bride

Brenda is amazing! She makes you feel like you have known her a lifetime! Quick responses, outlines the ceremony for you and helps with any questions. We were honored and blessed to have her marry us!! - Paige S

Brenda is a very patient very caring amazing woman!! She helped me through every step of the way I'm very indecisive and a big procrastinator. Brenda was there to help me figure out what I wanted and much more. She is very professional and caring. - Ashley W

She was professional, intuitive and receptive; and put this MOB to rest. The wedding was beautiful and beautifully done! Tammy-Lee B

Blue Kryptonite is awesome to work with. - Carrie P

Brenda was amazing! I would 100% recommend her to anyone wanting a smooth sailing, wonderful wedding experience. She was truly a blessing! - April V

Jason and I could not have done this without Brenda. She was patient with us while we figured  out what style of ceremony we wanted. And she was so helpful with the information she gave us. We just LOVE her!! - Jason & Christina R

I’ve known Brenda for about 7 years now. As the second mother to my best friend, she was always a loving, listening friend with a deep love for God and art. All of these beautiful aspects were incorporated into my wedding. We met to plan the ceremony and she was very patient. We read from sample ceremonies from different religious aspects as well as some non-religious programs as well. She allowed us time to go over the material and handcraft our ceremony to make it personal. We also received a beautiful marriage certificate from her as well which now hangs on our wall. - Michelle T

She was great with us! She showed up on time and did an amazing job. I recommend her to everyone I get the chance to! - Jessica H

Thank you so much for everything. It was truly a amazing day and you were a huge part of that. You were always there when we needed you. You are absolutely precious. Thank you, Brenda. ~ Jean V


Brenda was very professional and so nice! She got back to me fast and worked with me and made sure our big day was exactly what we wanted! I would recommend her to anyone in need of an officiant! Absolutely wonderful experience with her! 5 Stars - Dominique B

5 Stars - Ashley R

We had an amazing time! Thank you again sooo much for helping us on our special day, you truly are an amazing woman! Thank you once again for being our savior with us renewing our vows!!!- Michelle & John

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